An average, traditionally published children’s book, with a publisher, sells approximately 3,000 copies in its lifetime.

An average self-published children’s book sells roughly 250 copies over its lifetime, though many sell far fewer. 

As a self published author, today I hit a milestone. 

I've sold over 40,000 books.

Why People Are Buying My Healing Books by the Tens of Thousands

When I first began writing, my only hope was to try and help my own kids.  I felt so hopeless and was so desperate to help them to see their own goodness and find their way through the hell they were going through. What’s happened since then has been nothing short of incredible: tens of thousands of parents, caregivers, and therapists have bought these healing books.

So why are so many people reaching for them? The answer is simple: because the need is real, and the message is universal.

1. They Speak to Children and Teens

Most books are either “too young” or “too grown up.” Mine are intentionally written to resonate with kids as young as five while still offering depth and empowerment for teens, and even adults. Parents tell me their younger children fall in love with the stories, while their older ones quietly carry the messages with them like a lifeline.  And so many parents are telling me that they themselves are finding healing in them as well.

2. They Are Written for Real Life

Divorce. Co-parenting. Narcissistic parents. Anxiety. Boundaries. These aren’t abstract concepts... they’re real challenges we face every day. These books provide simple language, irresistible cadence and relatable images to process what they’re going through, without shame or blame.

3. They Empower Instead of Preach

Rather than telling kids what to think or feel, these books invite them to explore their own emotions, build resilience, and remember their inner strength. Parents love that they don’t come across as lectures, but as conversations.

4. They Work in High-Conflict Families

So many parents write to me saying, “This is the only book I’ve found that doesn’t take sides.” That neutrality makes the books safe... whether the difficult parent is mom, dad, or another caregiver. The focus is always on the child’s healing and agency.

5. They Open Conversations Parents Didn’t Know How to Start

One of the most common messages I get is:

“This book gave my child the words to tell me what they were feeling.”

When a story makes it easier for a child to say “I feel scared” or “I need space,” it creates breakthroughs families have been longing for.

6. They Are Beautifully Designed to Be Cherished

These aren’t throwaway books. They’re hardcover, thoughtfully illustrated, and created with care so they feel like treasures. Many families keep them on nightstands or pass them along as gifts, because they look as meaningful as they feel.

7. They Offer Hope in the Hardest Moments

Parents going through high-conflict custody, kids navigating confusing emotions, teens struggling with self-doubt... all need reminders that they are not alone and that healing is possible. These books act as beacons of hope, small enough to hold in your hands but powerful enough to change a day, a mindset, or even a life.

The Heart of It All

People aren’t buying these books because they’re trendy. They’re buying them because they work. 

I am so incredibly grateful for the success I've found in connecting with families that need these books.  If you're interested in checking out the books that are helping tens of thousands of families make their way through challenges feeing seen, supported and strong click here!