As a survivor of 20 years of narcissistic abuse, and now going on year nine of post-separation abuse that has deeply impacted both me and my kids, I’ve spent years focused on two things:
Healing. And helping my kids heal.
Out of that came 10 books for kids and teens, with several more on the way.
But as those books started reaching more families, I kept noticing something.
Parents would do anything to help their kids.
They'd buy the book. Find the therapist. Research the tools. Spend the time. Figure out how to pay for the thing their child needed.
But when it came to getting help for themselves?
"I can't afford it."
"I don't have the time."
"Maybe later."
"My kids need things more than I do."
And that one hit really close to home. Because I know that battle.
I will move mountains to help my kids heal. But when it comes to investing money, time or energy into me? That's harder. There are all those little voices telling you that you shouldn't. That there are more important things to spend the money on. That taking time for yourself is selfish. That everyone else's needs should come first.
And for people recovering from narcissistic abuse or a high-conflict divorce, there's another very real piece of this:
Sometimes the money simply isn't there.
Financial abuse is real. Withheld support is real.
Being dragged back to court over things that could have been resolved between two people who were genuinely focused on their children's well-being is real.
Attorney fees are real.
Starting over is expensive.
Trying to rebuild a household, your credit, your savings and your entire life while someone continues creating financial chaos is devastating.
And that left me with a problem I couldn't stop thinking about.
Over the years, I had created courses, meditations, exercises and practical tools that I knew could help people because many of them came directly from the work that helped me rebuild my own life.
And the people who could afford those courses were getting tremendous value from them.
But I kept thinking:
How the hell do I get these tools into the hands of the people who need them most when those are often the exact people who can afford them the least?
That question kept me up at night.
And ultimately, it's why I built Reclaim.
At first, the idea was pretty simple.
Take thousands of dollars' worth of courses, tools, meditations and resources and put them all in one place for one affordable monthly subscription.
Make the barrier smaller.
Make the help more accessible.
But then something happened that I wasn't expecting.
The thing I had been struggling with for years actually forced me to build something better.
Because once I started putting everything together, I realized I could connect the dots in a way I never could with individual courses.
Instead of learning something and then closing the course and trying to remember to use it in your actual life, Reclaim could help you turn what you're learning into what you're doing.
You don't just learn about boundaries.
You work through what your boundaries need to be. You create them. They can become part of your Daily Dashboard. You're reminded to practice them—and when guilt inevitably starts creeping in, you have practical tools to help you work through that too.
You don't just learn that you need "self-care."
You figure out what self-care actually means to you. Those things become part of your personal bank, and Reclaim encourages you to choose something that will genuinely refill you—not what Instagram says self-care is supposed to look like.
You don't just learn about what you should do to reclaim your financial power.
You have the tools you need, every day, to make better decisions, tackle problems that feel big and do so with practical, real support that is life-changing.
And when you start figuring out what you want for your future—not what your ex wants, not what your kids need, not what everyone around you expects—you don't just write it down and forget about it.
You break it into steps.
Reclaim helps bring those steps into your everyday life.
And when you reach one?
You stop long enough to celebrate the damn win.
Because after years of feeling like nothing you did was ever enough, learning to recognize your own progress matters too.
That's when I realized something.
The problem I had been stressing over for years... how do I make this help accessible to the people who need it most?... ended up becoming the thing that pushed me to create something far more meaningful than a collection of courses.
I didn't just make them cheaper.
I connected them.
I created a system designed to help take what you're learning about healing and bring it into the tiny decisions, habits, boundaries and actions that actually rebuild a life.
And I was able to make it dramatically more affordable at the same time.
That's Reclaim.
It's the result of years of doing this work myself.
Years of creating resources for other survivors.
And more than a few sleepless nights wondering how the hell I could get those resources past the very real financial barriers facing the people I created them for.
Because I know what it's like to spend everything you have... emotionally, physically and financially... trying to protect and heal your kids.
But somewhere in all of that...
you deserve to heal too.
And you shouldn't have to have thousands of extra dollars sitting in your bank account before you're allowed to start.
That's why I built Reclaim.
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