Helpful Resources for Recovery

The Wheely Cart Box

The Wheely Cart Box

It sat there for months unopened. Because what it looked like on the surface wasn’t something you thought you needed or wanted. And it wasn’t until you were probably ready...

The Wheely Cart Box

It sat there for months unopened. Because what it looked like on the surface wasn’t something you thought you needed or wanted. And it wasn’t until you were probably ready...

Getting a Lawyer Isn’t the Solution

Getting a Lawyer Isn’t the Solution

It’s part of the solution. I am asked for advice all the time about high-conflict situations.  And my response is always the same;  “Get a lawyer.” But I always have...

Getting a Lawyer Isn’t the Solution

It’s part of the solution. I am asked for advice all the time about high-conflict situations.  And my response is always the same;  “Get a lawyer.” But I always have...

Why Leaving Feels So Hard (Even When You Know You Should)

Why Leaving Feels So Hard (Even When You Know Y...

Did a podcast recently with The Ex Wives Lounge Podcast.  It's the strangest feeling to feel less alone in connecting with others who have experienced what we went through... while...

Why Leaving Feels So Hard (Even When You Know Y...

Did a podcast recently with The Ex Wives Lounge Podcast.  It's the strangest feeling to feel less alone in connecting with others who have experienced what we went through... while...

Financial Abuse After Divorce: Signs, Recovery and How to Rebuild

Financial Abuse After Divorce: Signs, Recovery ...

Most people think of abuse as physical or emotional.  But there’s another form of abuse that is just as powerful... and is why so many feel trapped: Financial abuse. Financial...

Financial Abuse After Divorce: Signs, Recovery ...

Most people think of abuse as physical or emotional.  But there’s another form of abuse that is just as powerful... and is why so many feel trapped: Financial abuse. Financial...

My Dragon Protector

No slay

I’ve started doing Thai massage as part of my recovery.  (If you’re new here... last July was my fourth bout with cancer, and I’m still finding my way back.) It’s...

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No slay

I’ve started doing Thai massage as part of my recovery.  (If you’re new here... last July was my fourth bout with cancer, and I’m still finding my way back.) It’s...

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The Danger of Forgiving Them Before You Forgive Yourself

The Danger of Forgiving Them Before You Forgive...

“Just forgive them.” It sounds so simple.So evolved.So… right. But for many people healing from violation or abuse... including narcissistic abuse... this advice can actually do more harm than good....

The Danger of Forgiving Them Before You Forgive...

“Just forgive them.” It sounds so simple.So evolved.So… right. But for many people healing from violation or abuse... including narcissistic abuse... this advice can actually do more harm than good....